September/October

October is ending and I wonder where the two months since our last post have gone. It's been a blur of activity, ranging from vacation at the beach to fall mornings at the park to an illness that circulated around the house and hobbled us all for about a week. Madeline continues to grow at an astounding rate, having already filled the shoes we bought her a couple months ago with the intention of them being her winter shoes. Silly us.
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Preschool: The big development hasn't actually happened yet. We've been shopping for a preschool for Madeline. We started looking late - most schools begin in September with the regular school year, but we started our search in late October - and many of the programs were full. But we scheduled some informational visits so we could have a basis on which to judge schools. We were surprised when our favorite school called us a couple hours after our visit and said they would like to make an exception and include Madeline in their 2-year-old class. We readily accepted and she begins this coming Friday.

Madeline seems to be excited about the idea of preschool. She's not clingy - she hardly noticed during our visits when Lacey and I would leave the room to speak with the preschool directors. I think I will be more sad to let her go than she will! I have been lucky to be at home with her during the day for almost her entire life, so to send her off, even for a few hours two days a week, will be quite an adjustment for me.

Sickness: Madeline did not fall ill with her monthly sickness in October, although she did catch a sinus infection shortly after I was ill for a few days. We'll keep our fingers crossed for November - she's been sick every month for almost a year and I think she deserves a break.

Halloween: After missing Halloween last year, I wanted to make sure we made it up this time around. I came up with the idea of a pumpkin party, and we invited a few folks over to carve pumpkins and wear silly costumes. We decorated the house and had tasty desserts. Madeline had a great time (and maybe a little too much sugar) and we are all set to make the most of the holiday season that now awaits.

Here are some pictures from the past two months:


We spent a week in September at the beach - our first weeklong family vacation since our last trip to the beach two years ago. Madeline again got sick the day before our departure, but it was nowhere near as bad as last time, and we ended up having a wonderful trip. Madeline spent most of her time digging in the sand, since her small stature rendered her at a disadvantage when playing in the crashing surf.

Madeline found a hermit crab and was not shy about checking him out.

Every night after dinner we took a walk on the beach. Well, Lacey and I walked while Madeline sprinted madly across the sand. She ran and ran, using up her last bits of energy before bath and bedtime.

Occasionally she allowed herself to be caught long enough for a hug during her sprinting sessions.

Looking for pretty seashells with Mommy.

Sunrise walks on the beach were an invigorating way to start our days.

Madeline helped me wash my car on a pleasant fall weekend.

Madeline got her first real instrument - a ukulele from Molly and Bruce. She enjoys strumming it and singing "Buffalo Gals."

We spent a weekend on the bay during our annual trip to the boat festival at St. Michaels. Madeline and Lacey crewed a wee Punkin on a gorgeous morning. At 2 years old, it looks like Madeline already has an appreciation for relaxing on a sailboat.

On a beautiful fall day, Madeline shows off her injury from an unfortunate tumble.

Madeline has a silly sense of humor, as she displayed when she marched around the house under this "umbrella" - which originated as a plastic cupcake decoration.

Madeline, pointing at something that was probably very interesting, wore glasses on the afternoon after her pediatric eye exam. (Turns out her vision is just about perfect.)

As part of my "make up for missing last Halloween" effort, we went to an orchard in the mountains this year to find apples and pumpkins. Lacey and Madeline made an amazing apple pie and the pumpkin later became "Mr. Pumpkin," whom we greeted every morning on the front steps when we left the house.

Madeline loved exploring the rows between apple trees at the orchard.

We even took a hayride during our orchard visit.

Madeline and Mr. Pumpkin.

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Madeline helps mom in the kitchen. One of my favorite things about fall and winter weekends is waking up to whatever delicious aromas the two of them conjure up.

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The results of our Halloween pumpkin party. Mr. Pumpkin is the big one at center-left.

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Madeline dressed as Tinkerbell for Halloween. . .

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and even went trick-or-treating at a few houses before coming home and handing out candy to the other neighborhood kids.

August

August has come to a humid end and we look somewhat eagerly to the fall. While the multitudes of mosquitoes have driven us from our own yard, we have been active at the local parks, soaking up the warm summer days and exploring nature where we find it.

Sickness: Madeline's monthly sickness reared its head again in August, as expected, but was a bit worse this time. We took her back to the doctor and they suspect her tonsils may be to blame. If it happens again in September we'll go back to the doctor and they will make a determination at that point. Poor Madeline has been sick to some degree every month this year. Thankfully it usually only lasts about 24 hours and generally hasn't been much more than a high fever.

Big bed: Madeline made the move to a big-girl bed this month, and she has been very excited. She shows everyone who comes over and regales them with the details. And she's very good about staying in bed (see more below).

Make believe: For the past week or so, Madeline only answers to the name "Marta." Or "Doggy." Or "Princess." She has a vivid imagination and often assimilates situations from her favorite books into her own life. She also received a tea set from her babysitter, and she loves to share tea time with anyone who will join her.

Potty training: Several times this month, Madeline has been able complete the potty process completely by herself, from start to finish. The first time was a surprise - we just looked over and she had prepared herself and sat down without even mentioning it to us.

Whistling: Often when we ride in the car, Madeline is lost in her own little world of wonder, talking and singing and otherwise emptying the contents of her mind. At one point recently, I noticed a different sound coming from the back seat. I turned and saw Madeline, lips pursed, whistling. I watched her for a minute and realized what was happening, but when I laughingly mentioned it to her, she started to laugh as well, and the momentum was difficult for her to retrieve. She has tried again several times since, with varying success.

Some pictures from this month:

Madeline had a great time when the Hartsons spent a weekend with us. A highlight was the Maymont Nature Center, where the kids watched the otters and then picked up stuffed versions to take home.

Madeline finally got her hair cut. After scoping the place out a week earlier, she was excited to return for a trim from the hairdresser, Kim.

Our little artist knocked out a couple commissions - one of which proudly hangs in her dad's cubicle at work.

Madeline got her first bee sting, at a summer picnic this month. It was a small bee, and a small sting, so it became more of a curiosity than an ordeal.

At an early age, Madeline showed a penchant for jewelry. Her love of accessorizing has not diminished with the passage of time.

Madeline impressed me when she put together this drawing of a flower. For the first time, she deliberately drew it in two parts - the flower itself and then the long stem below. She's good at drawing circles (and calling it a sun) and other squiggles, but this was an instance that required some precision and forethought.

Madeline made the transition to her big-girl bed this month. She's very good about staying in bed - almost too good. She's so conditioned to being picked up when she's ready to get out that she won't get out on her own, even with the side removed. I'm sure she'll figure it out soon enough, but for now we're not letting on that getting up on her own is a possibility, even if it means that we deliver a book from the nearby bookshelf that she could otherwise easily get on her own.

Our little kitchen helper loves offering a hand preparing dinner. And she loves corn on the cob, so in this case, a win-win.

Maymont continues to be a go-to destination for pleasant days. This time we visited the Japanese Garden for the first time, and my little adventurer got a kick out of climbing the rocks beside the big waterfall.

July

It's been a fun summer so far, with days spent at the river, at the park, with family, and having fun at home. Madeline is becoming a regular chatterbox, and can talk for minutes on end, weaving together disparate thoughts connected by the occasional
"because. . ." or "so I. . ."

Just today she counted to 20 for the first time that I've heard - she previously stopped at 14 but today just kept on going. She can spend entire car rides and neighborhood walks entertaining herself with one-sided conversation, and even seems perplexed when I occasionally remark on her thoughts, as if she didn't quite realize herself that she was lost in a distant world of imagination. So mostly I just listen and enjoy (see the video at the bottom of this post).

Haircut: Last week we took Madeline to the salon for her first haircut - her hair is so long and is looking a little shaggy when it's not held back or put up in a pony tail. As I expected, the first visit to the salon was spent just checking the place out - she clutched and climbed me but was happy to look around and even have her hair brushed while I was holding her. But no haircut. But our intent was to introduce the idea - we'll try again this week (she has already excitedly agreed, but we'll see what happens when we actually get there.)

Sickness: For the past several months, Madeline has come down with a high fever almost every four weeks to the day. There are no other symptoms, just the high fever (up to 105) that spikes for about a day and a half and then fades away. She's fatigued for a few more days and then it's back to normal. It's curious that this happens so regularly - the doctor found no cause when we took her the first or second time it happened - but at least we're getting more of a routine when dealing with it when it pops up.

Here are some pictures (and video) from the past month:

Madeline got a kick out of eating lunch in her high chair one day, which for several months had sat unused in a corner of our dining room. Usually she eats at the kitchen counter or in her Buzz Lightyear chair (seen in the background).

Madeline eyed her drink on a warm afternoon while helping me with some grilling on the back porch.

In honor of the World Cup, which Madeline frequently watched with me, we had our own little Cup in the backyard, complete with shouts of "Goal!" and "We won the game!"

Madeline made her first visit to the Virginia Museum of Fine Arts. The trip was cut short as Madeline became increasingly sick with her monthly illness, but we enjoyed the time we spent and look forward to going back when everyone is feeling well.

Madeline tried out her mommy's sunglasses, and felt pretty cool.

Taking care of Baby Maddie.

We took a three-day mini-vacation to Grandma's house, and spent a morning at Haven Beach in nearby Mathews. Madeline had fun swimming and watching daddy get nibbled by the fish.

Madeline also spent some time exploring the tide pools and their curious and bountiful inhabitants.

Madeline even took the oars during an outing with Grandma.

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I guess we're pretty lucky to have a 2-year-old who loves to sit and read to herself for long periods. Here is a video I shot surreptitiously as she read one of her favorites.

June

Summer has appeared with a vengeance, with this month being the hottest June on record in Richmond. Madeline spent much of her time focused on indoor pursuits - drawing, fingerpainting, cooking and watching lots of World Cup soccer with me. She also enjoyed spending quiet time with her stuffed friends, reading to them, taking them to the imaginary doctor or grocery store, or just taking them for a walk in the doll-size stroller.

There haven't been many major developments, other than her continued growth. She's actually starting to look tall now, and the latest bedroom-door marking sits nearly three-quarters of an inch above the last measurement, taken in May. Potty training is going well - she only wears diapers at night now, and has even made use of public facilities when the need arises while we're out and about. This makes us think about putting her in a kid bed now, but we're not quite ready for the secondary effects - the refusal to get in bed at bedtime and the midnight visits to our room. That time is coming soon, though.

Here are some pictures from this month:

We went camping early this month at Otter Creek on the Blue Ridge Parkway. When we set up camp on the first afternoon, a tired Madeline quickly settled into the tent with her books and her friends. This was not the case at bedtime later that night, when it took almost four hours to get her settled down.

Madeline's favorite part of the camping experience was playing with Mommy in Otter Creek, which trickled peacefully next to our campsite. Here she plays in the afternoon. . .

and it was her first order of business early the next morning.

With apple in hand, Madeline hiked most of the mile-long trail to Johnson Farm.

Madeline and Mommy surveyed the grounds from the window of the historic farmhouse.

Madeline even got to see the dolls that the girls who lived on the farm once played with.

We also hiked up a mountain - at the top, one of us was full of energy, and the other was not.

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We were amazed when Madeline swept this paper off the kitchen counter and it landed as you see here - on its side.


Madeline enjoyed playing dress-up on a muggy, lazy afternoon at Grandma's house.


Madeline still gets plenty of enjoyment from her kitchen - a Christmas gift last year. She cooks stews and cookies using spices and kitchen supplies borrowed from Mommy.

When the weather returned to more seasonable temperatures later in the month, Madeline and I jumped at the chance to spend a morning hiking along the James River.

Here Madeline's thinking, "Hmmm, what can I throw into the water?"

We stopped at a shady bench to eat a snack and watch the water roll by.