Friday, May 16, 2008

The eleventh week

It's now been three consecutive nights that Madeline has slept more than 8 hours in a row. Lacey and I are going to start getting spoiled soon - we weren't expecting to get to this point for another month or more. But, like we've said before, every night is its own adventure, and what happens one night might have no bearing on following nights.

We haven't had any more rollovers this week, but every day we enjoy Madeline's increasing engagement with her surroundings. She talks to us more and shows excitement frequently in her facial expressions and physical movements. And she's definitely getting bigger - she noticeably fills out her clothes more snugly and feels heavier when we hold her. We suspect she went through a growth spurt within the last couple weeks and are looking forward to getting her updated measurements in another week or so.


Thursday, May 15, 2008

A full night


Last night, for the first time, Madeline slept for over 8 hours during the night. Of course, Lacey was awake at the normal overnight feeding time - about 2:30 a.m. - and couldn't sleep because she was wondering what the baby was doing. And I didn't get to bed until after 1:30 a.m., so when Madeline was ready to start her day at about 6:45 I had only been asleep for a few hours.

Madeline's all-night sleep session was the culmination of more than a week of regular 6- to 7-hour overnight periods, so she's definitely moving in the right direction.

Monday, May 12, 2008

Mobile video

Madeline enjoys watching the sea-creature mobile in her crib. And I enjoy watching her enjoy it!

Sunday, May 11, 2008

When babies get excited

Madeline's awake times are getting more and more energetic. Of course she's already rolled from front to back, and she's this close to rolling over back to front. And when she's excited she really gets those arms and legs moving.

Friday, May 9, 2008

The tenth week


Shortly after we brought Madeline home, I apologized to Lacey in advance in case I were to ever speak to her in baby talk. I spend so much of my day talking to Madeline that I sometimes forget to switch to adult mode when addressing my wife. I don't mean the high-pitched "goo-goo" talk, but things like not using pronouns and calling her "mommy" in the third person. (ie, "What's mommy going to have for lunch today?") I imagine this will only get worse as Madeline starts to talk more.

The big story this week has been Madeline's newfound mobility. It's been amazing watching her intellect blossom and evolve over the past weeks, but her rollovers this week have been the first instances of her actually moving herself. She's no longer a sedentary sack of cuteness (well, most of the time she still is). She's also been kicking her legs a lot more, and pushing off when I put my hands on the bottom of her feet. I just know she'll be crawling before we know it.

The other big development this week has been Madeline's sleeping patterns. Every night this week she's gone to bed between 8 and 9 p.m. and stayed asleep until her 2-3 a.m. feeding. After that feeding she'll sleep soundly until about 6:30. And she's been sleeping all night in her crib. This means her parents are actually getting some good sleep (for Lacey, it's the first good sleep she's had in months).

Thursday, May 8, 2008

She's all hands

It's fun to watch as Madeline uses her hands more. She occasionally grabs objects that are in within reach, although it still seems accidental. I guess soon she'll discover her hands and nothing will be safe again.

As a side note, Lacey reports that Madeline rolled over a couple times yesterday morning, proving that Sunday's events were not a fluke.

Monday, May 5, 2008

Saying hello

I received my new video camera today, and this is some of the first footage of Madeline. Due to the time-consuming nature of uploading video to the blog, I will still be posting mostly still photographs, but I hope to share the occasional movie.

My birthday


One year ago today, I celebrated my birthday in Death Valley. Lacey and I packed the bare essentials and flew out West to camp and hike for five days in one of the most brutal environments on Earth. Today we celebrated the date by taking our daughter to Maymont Park in the sunny, perfect weather of early May.

Two celebrations, a world apart. Gone for now are the days of globe-trotting adventures for Lacey and me. We traveled extensively in recent years knowing that luxury would be finite. At the time, it was hard to imagine a life centered around our home, a life that wasn't enthralled by the exploration of the distant corners of our world.

I don't write this with animosity. I once thought that I might later look back on those adventures with a sense of longing for what once was. But today I never wished I was anywhere else. A year ago, miles into a desolate, lifeless canyon under a baking desert sun, I turned to Lacey and said, "this is exactly where I want to be right now." I couldn't think of another location or activity that would be superior to that moment. Today, sitting with my wife and daughter on a carpet of green less than 10 miles from our home, I had the exact same thought.

This is exactly where I want to be.

Sunday, May 4, 2008

On a roll



This afternoon Madeline hit a big milestone - she rolled over. She had just eaten and was in a good mood, so I put her on her tummy for some play time. I had my camera at the ready, and before I knew what was happening she rolled onto her back.

I was astonished - when I put her on her tummy I thought she might raise her head and do some pushups. I wasn't even thinking about her rolling over. And I think she was just as surprised as I was - slowly a smile crept across her face and she began to chirp and coo.

I put her on her stomach again and almost before I could move my hands away she rolled over again. And then she did it again. After three good rollovers she was worn out, but my spirits were high. After weeks of gradual developmental improvements (watching and grasping objects and more frequent vocalizations), we were excited to have a more momentous occasion to celebrate.

Friday, May 2, 2008

The ninth week


It's been a quiet week, a good week. The days have been nice and the nights are slowly getting better. Madeline's daily schedule has become as predictable as the seasons.

Madeline sleeps well for the first part of the night, from about 9 p.m. until about 2:30 a.m. Occasionally she'll need to be comforted to fall back to sleep, but she usually doesn't need to be picked up. After her 2:30 feeding, though, things can be a little more tenuous. Once she's put back down she often grunts and cries out, even though she might not be awake. And she's generally ready to get her day started by about 5:30.

As some of you may know, I work evenings at the newspaper. So it basically works out that Madeline is sleeping well during the early of the part of the night when Lacey is in bed, and then is restless and awake once I come home and try to sleep. But Lacey has been nice about letting me sleep a little in the morning.

Notes from this week

- Lacey and I were amused Thursday as Madeline grabbed the pacifier from her mouth and then tried to put it back in, sideways. While it was pretty funny to watch, it was also a good indicator that she's working on her hand-eye coordination. She still doesn't grab objects purposefully, but she grasps things she comes in contact with casually.

- We've started putting Madeline to bed in her crib again after letting her sleep in her swing in our bedroom for a few weeks. When the acid reflux was in full force, she would only sleep when she was in motion. Now that the symptoms are mostly gone we're hoping she'll take to her crib, sparing us from listening to all those small grunts throughout the night. So far it seems to be going well.